The one most important thing I learned from being married for 10 years, together for 15, is the art of communication.
The two parts are 1) how to connect so we can initiate a conversation, and 2) to validate the other person feelings, without feeling attacking or without taking it personally.
And we have to keep remembering that we’re always a team. We’re here to work together to make things better for us.
We’re always choosing each other. And we choose to choose each other.