Claudia Chan

Join my FB group: Journey to Me - Adult Children Healing from Family Expectation to Freedom 

This is a group for Adult Children who have very traditional, controlling, manipulative parents, who now just want to live for themselves. 

I was the daughter who was very obedient, who wanted to please my family. I studied hard, and worked hard. And yet I wanted more than the traditional path. 

So when I came upon the time to decide on my life partner, I had to make a very difficult choice. Do I please my parents and make myself unhappy? Or do I choose myself, and watch them walk away? 

Because obedience equals love. If I don’t obey, that means I don’t love them, don’t respect them. 

It took me a long time to separate these two things. 

Luckily my parents came around. And yet I know there are many people whose parents are not like that, very toxic and controlling. 

And that’s why I created this group, so we can walk through this together. 

Because I know it can be quite lonely and scary. 

I’ll be creating training videos and sharing stories in this group. 

I’ll see you in there. 
https://www.facebook.com/groups/2249634185512389